Tuesday, October 25, 2016
Friday, October 21, 2016
Sunday, August 28, 2016
Monday, August 8, 2016
Saturday, May 21, 2016
Thursday, April 21, 2016
How do you process disappointment ??, you may be disappointed in yourself, your parents, your friend or even your favourite team. Do you respond with anger or do you resort to violent acts (vandalism)?.
How many times have you responded with positive attitude towards negative situations ?. How positive are you when you are facing with negative situation ?.
Has the the level of your positivity been taken to the test and how did you feel after that ?.
I myself have been in a number of negative situations and some I was able to make it through with positive attitude but some I found myself doubting if I would make it through, I even thought of giving up but still I pressed on, it was that time when I realised my weaknesses.
You know you can be positive by just thinking or talking about how you plan on doing something and become less positive when you start doing what you planned ?.
What you need is a daily routine were you teach yourself how to be positive.
But first you must be confident and be happy, don't let material things determine your happiness.
Friday, April 1, 2016
Monday, March 21, 2016
Tuesday, March 15, 2016
Have you ever had to walk away from someone you genuinely love because your just not happy anymore? Well I did and it's tearing me apart.
I'm not hurting because I left, giving up on the hope and faith that I had in our relationship is what is really proving to be a challenge because I feel like I have to travel into the future and erase all the hopes and dreams I had for us, the belief that I had of us staying together forever and just coming to terms with the fact that it's just not happening anymore. Everything is just different now and I'm not really sure if I was ever ready for it!
But I didn't leave because I wanted to, I just realized that it's no use loosing more of myself to a situation I'm no longer getting any serious satisfaction from, happiness is temporary and is often clouded by everything else that is happening between us. Loosing more of my self to a situation that constantly makes me feel like a liability or inconvenience.
I just think that sometimes we just need to learn to be able to love the people we love from afar, where they are no longer influencing our lives and just be there until we've let go enough to properly move on.
The love I have for myself will sustain me through all this because I definitely know that I can absolutely do better and nothing is ever really worth it if it doesn't bring Joy to my life.
Change is not easy, but it can definitely free you!!!
Sunday, March 6, 2016
Saturday, February 20, 2016
Tuesday, February 2, 2016
Wednesday, January 27, 2016
Sunday, January 10, 2016
Life is a continuous cycle of different events and experiences, in life we have good, bad, happy, fast and slow times. Life to me is time, as it is used to measure life.
The reality of your life will stay with you because it is who you are and will stay with you for the given time you have In this world. Sometimes it is not what we want or expect from life at the time but remember that it is those imperfections that derive our true selves and what we are capable of.
I know a lot of people who are always Living outside the reality of their lives, and yes maybe it's working for them and gives them a sense of freedom in some way but what I have realized is that some things are like our shadows, no matter how far or fast you move they are always there by your side.
There are things that are within your reach, things you can do something about and maybe change them for the better in your life and there are those that are rigid, inflexible and out of reach but are part of your everyday life.
The only way of dealing with such things is through recognition and acceptance. Recognize the reality of your life, see how it's affecting you(which can either be negative/positive/both) identity those that you can change or do something about and just accept the ones you can't change and just try seeking ways of making them work for/with you in order to make you a better person.