Sunday, October 25, 2015

Your ability to Let Go...

Letting go of things in life for me is freeing, because things do not stay and form unnecessary strong holds in my life that will impact on me negatively. There’s no point in hanging onto something that is not really benefiting you positively in anyway, I always say that if it’s not making you happy or completing you in any way then maybe it’s not even worth the trouble.

Irrespective of the magnitude of whatever you might be hanging onto I suggest that you part ways with it and focus on the things that can actually better your life right now, look at the future with a positive eye and just expect the best form it.

I always tell myself that I’m my greatest asset and that if I positively invest in myself then the benefits are infinite. I have promised myself that i'm going to get the most out of the life I have now and will not allow anything to have any negative influence in my life.

It’s a personal choice that one needs to take and live out the single lifetime they have to the fullest without any interference, so the choice is yours!!

Friday, October 23, 2015

The Past

Today I had something like a flash back of a past experience that really made me understand the outcome of something right now, which really intrigued me for some time.

After that I realized that we are always talking about how we want to forget the past and just move on, yet sometimes the past is exactly what we need to make us understand the things we encounter while moving through life.

I do believe that we should not dwell in past events especially those that were negative, but look at the past as a tool or experience you need to get ahead in life. Its gives you necessary insight about situations and minimize the chances of having to re-live the experience again so I say let’s not run away from our past but rather let it flout alongside us for our own convenience without affecting us in anyway.

Our past’s give us experience, and we need experience for almost everything in life so let’s embrace it and grow ourselves personally through perseverance and endurance!! 

Tuesday, October 20, 2015

Pain Changes People...

Pain is something that we all experience in life, the severity and duration of its effects differs with situations but it’s still pain experienced none the less. A lot of us are born kind but because of the things we experience and the pain we have to deal with, we often find ourselves lost in dark areas in our lives caused by anger, resentment and negativism!

I understand exactly how pain can change an individual because I believe that it is something that I have had to go through myself. There are a lot of things that have caused a lot of pain in my life and for some time I was very bitter and dissatisfied with everything in my life, I even reached a point where I saw no reason for me to continue living because I felt like my life was some kind of repetitive cycle of disappointment and pain and I was just prepared to give up.

But I managed to break free and accept the blessing that were due to me, in fact looking back right now I feel like what I was going through was a test that I managed to pass. I’m very proud of the person I am and who I have become because I understand exactly what it took to take myself this far. I believe that God has always been on my side even when I felt like the whole world was against me, family and new found friends always encourage me to do better in life and I am very grateful for that!

In whatever way pain has changed you I believe that you can also find solace and just find balance and peace in your life, it might not be easy but it’s possible!, If it’s going to change your life for the better then it’s absolutely worth the trouble.

One mistake I made is to reach a point where I have given up on myself and it is something that nobody should get to experience because how we feel and view ourselves should not be influenced in any way by the negative things we experience in life, that’s how I see things now!

This is something to really think about and at the end I trust that Positivism will be a part of each and every person’s life, lets continue Embracing Positive Change.

Thursday, October 15, 2015

Bringing Positive Change

Changing your life for the better is probably one of the difficult things you can ever do because it involves sacrifices and alterations that are often not easy to endure. We all have our ways of doing things and there’s a point in life where those ways will either continue working for you or show you that there’s something wrong/missing that is needed.

Looking back I’ve actually come a long way when looking at the changes I have made to my life in order to accommodate positivity and the pleasure of having genuine people in my life. I have managed to identify a lot of things about myself that I was not aware of and now my life is at equilibrium and I do not have much to really complain about which is a good thing when compared to how things were previously.

I know I’m not the only one who has come a long way so far, I’m sure if you were to take time and just look at the things you’ve gotten through so far you’ll see how much progress your making and that grown is there. You strive to be a better person and that’s exactly what you are achieving.

I know that sometimes we get anxious for our big breaks and all but we also need to understand that everything needs to happen at the right time not just because we feel like it is what is due to us, our efforts never go to waste and we will get where we want to see ourselves eventually.

Let’s continue embracing it and enjoy the benefits of positivism!!

Monday, October 12, 2015

Your Approach...

Something I realized!!!
  • How you approach things in life is very important, especially if you’re not the only one affected in the situation. Sometimes we just see thing and just focus too much on how they could affect us individually without actually realizing that the next person might be much closer to the fire and are directly affected.
  • This is something I've had to learn the hard way because I tend to be very protective of myself and say things that make it clear to the listener but I also realized that It’s not always going to be about what I want or do not want in life and that while I'm busy trying to avoid something the next person mighty be going through or experiencing problem.
  • We learn from the mistakes that we make and they play a huge part of our growth and development as people, I want to be a better person, a better person than the person I was yesterday and I have definitely learnt something from this whole experience.

I too Embrace Positive Change, Lifetime goal!!

Friday, October 9, 2015


People are trapped in a little cage called fear, It is normal to have fears but it is abnormal to allow the very same fears to control you and to keep you from doing anything you want to do. Look, you are already exposed right now is either you give it everything you have to break free from your fears or you decide to stay there with no motion.

Remember that you have nothing left to lose, everything is there for you to win and fear is just an illusion, is not a barrier but it is there to drive, to motivate, to inspire and to help you unleash all the potential that is buried within you……